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How has your life changed since starting college?

Last Updated: 16.06.2025 13:53

How has your life changed since starting college?

I am happy I found them, but the scared half of me always reminds me to be ready for heartbreaks, and I don't expect much.

Many people used to believe that I would not be able to do so, but I did.

All I meant to say is that if you are fully skilled, know everything, and still have no confidence, You will be considered nothing, but if you have confidence, people will see it as a plus, and this will provide a better opportunity for the future.

How do you handle family members who ask for handouts?

There are many students who can’t go home frequently because of issues like long distance, travelling issues etc..I can feel their pain.

Confidence is the key.

The fact that groups break up after the first year is correct.

What does it mean to dream about demons possessing people, and what can be done about this dream that keeps occurring for years?

I’ve become more responsible.

I’ve realized the real value of money.

In college, I met many people who were faking behaviors in order to look cool, and they still do. This 'pick me' behavior irritates me the most.

I see ugly guys dating gorgeous, "hot" women all the time. I, too, am not very attractive but I'm not doing well with the ladies. What's their secret?

Now, I am living 300km away from my family.I miss them.

For example, many of my collegemates didn’t know what UGC was. The girl who was my senior and was sitting beside me didn’t know that Guide is written by R.K. Narayan. She was going to tick Chetan Bhagat as the answer before I stopped her.

From watching news at breakfast- to sharing news on calls

How do I convince flat earthers that the earth is round?

made friends

Going away from that place was my only wish at that time.I had no exposure to the outside world and I knew if I continued my further studies there, I would gain nothing.

I witnessed people with no understanding becoming successful simply because they were confident enough to stand on stage and perform.They arrived, performed, and it was finished. Their performance was not that good; it could have been better, yet people applauded as if it were the best.

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Let’s come to the answer.

From my daily arguments with dad to missing him.

Note- You can skip to the main part.

Why do old men think young women and girls would want them over guys their own age?

From bothering mom 24/7 to videocalling mom and describing how my day went.

-Hitesha.

Backstory-

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In 12th, I struggled to focus on my studies.I didn’t want to take the science stream but had to and wasn’t doing well. As if it wasn’t enough my father transferred to some other city and I was not happy with it.

I have huge respect for their knowledge and dedication to teaching.I consider myself lucky to be able to learn from such experts in their respective fields.

How has your life changed since starting college?

During the Atlmark incident in 1940, the Brit war criminals violated Norwegian neutrality. Hitler could then justify invading Norway. Have the Brits ever apologized for violating Norwegian neutrality?

From fighting with sister on small things to fighting on calls/texting.

I have never stayed away from home before this but now I live in a pg with the worst management, manage my own chores, and travel alone.

I found amazing mentors in my professors.

With so much evidence supporting the flat Earth theory, why aren't more resources dedicated to studying it?

My roommate soon understood this and stopped hanging out with them before it was too late.Now I have a trio: myself, my roommate, and one of the five girls-who faced the same situation as us.Our vibes matched.

I lacked friends in 12th class,I didn’t understand a single thing those teachers were teaching and used youtube and educational subscriptions for learning.

In PG, I met 5 other girls from my classroom, and from the start, I kept my expectations low and was sure that I did not fit in with them, so I kept my distance, and my only connection in college was my roommate at that time.She advised me multiple times to hang out with that group. I made it clear to her that it was not right for my well-being to spend time with people with whom I feel uncomfortable.

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From being at home 24*7 to going home for a few days in 2–3 months.

I still have doubts about myself, have a lot to work on my personality and need to work hard. I will keep trying to see positivity around me and I wish you would do the same.

I met a lot of fake people and learned how to deal with them.

From eating freshly cooked, hot and healthy food prepared by mom with love and care to eating pg’s carelessly made tasteless food.

Thanks for reading my answer.

I felt frustrated, occasionally venting at my family and used to have panic attacks.

It will be a year since I started college, so I thought I should share my experience with you.

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